Tarot Magic: Three of Cups Ritual

Three of Cups Energy

The Three of Cups tarot card embraces the magic of celebration, friendship, and communal joy. This card dances to the rhythm of shared happiness and the unbreakable bonds of companionship. It whispers of gatherings, reunions, and the warmth of hearts joined in mutual support and understanding. The Three of Cups symbolizes the essence of community and the power of collective energy and speaks to the strength found in unity, the comfort of shared experiences, and the joy of life’s milestones celebrated together. It encourages an embrace of social connections, the nurturing of friendships, and the importance of expressing gratitude and love within a community.

When the energy of the Three of Cups is missing from your life, there’s a palpable sense of disconnection and loneliness. The warmth of shared joy and the comfort of companionship feel distant, leaving a void where laughter and mutual support once flourished. Social interactions may seem superficial or strained, lacking the depth and sincerity of true connectedness. This absence can manifest as a yearning for meaningful relationships, a longing for community, and a deep desire for the celebratory spirit that enriches life’s experiences.

What is a Tarot Magic?

Tarot Magic is a ceremonial or ritual practice that uses the symbolism and energy of a tarot cards for introspection, guidance, and manifestation. It often involves a mindful and intentional arrangement of selected cards to create a sacred space and focus the practitioner’s intentions. The ritual can include meditation, visualization, affirmations, or other magical elements like candles, crystals, or incense. Through this ritual, individuals seek deeper understanding, personal growth, and a connection with the spiritual or subconscious aspects of their lives.

Embracing the Three of Cups

This Three of Cups ritual is a meaningful way to celebrate and strengthen your bonds of community, friendship and love by honoring the joy these connections bring into your life. This ritual serves as a heartfelt invocation for deepening relationships, fostering communal harmony, and embracing the shared happiness of life’s journey. It’s an intentional practice to acknowledge the importance of social bonds, to express gratitude for the support and love found within our circles, and to manifest continued joy, unity, and emotional fulfillment in our communal experiences.

Take a moment with the Three of Cups card, observing its vibrant imagery and the story it portrays. Notice the figures, their joyful communion, glasses raised, the atmosphere of celebration. Let the vibrant energy of this card wash over you. Feel the warmth of friendship and the joy of shared experiences. Reflect on how this card resonates within your own life and allow that energy to awaken a sense of gratitude and anticipation for the ritual ahead.


Tarot Ritual for Connection


  • Three candles (preferably in joyful colors like bright pink, yellow, or green)
  • A small bowl of water
  • Three crystals (such as rose quartz for love, amethyst for spiritual connection, and citrine for joy)
  • Paper and pen
  • Indoor or outdoor plant
  • Photographs or mementos representing your cherished relationships
  • A cup of a celebratory beverage (like wine, juice, or herbal tea)

Ritual Practice

Preparation: Find a peaceful space where you can perform the ritual without disturbance.

Center Yourself: Sit or stand comfortably and close your eyes. Take a few deep breaths to center your yourself and clear your mind.

Create your space: Arrange the candles in a triangle on your altar or other safe surface. Place the bowl of water in the center of the candles and arrange the crystals around it. Surround this setup with the photographs or mementos.

Light the candles: Allow your eyes to softly focus on the flame, a symbol of the warmth and light brought into your life by your relationships.

Reflective Writing: Write down what gift each of your closest relationships bring to your life. Acknowledge the love, support, and happiness each of these different connections provide. Think about the human relationships in your life, but also consider your non-human relationships (plant, animal, fungi, rivers, wind, mountains, etc.) How do these larger communities sustain you?

Crystal Charging: Hold each crystal in your hand, one at a time, and infuse it with your intention to strengthen the joyous and healthy bonds in your life . As you hold each crystal, visualize the expansive connections of these relationships. Noticed how your body feels as you allow yourself to be held by the comfort they bring.

Water Blessing: Gently place each of the crystals in the bowl, symbolically charging the water with this energy. As you do this, say aloud or in your mind, “May the flow of love and joy in my relationships be ever abundant, nourishing, and pure.”

Celebratory Toast: Raise your cup, making a celebratory toast to your loved ones, whether they are physically present or not. As you drink, imagine you are internalizing in the joy and love that these relationships bring.

Nurture and Reciprocate: When you have finished your beverage, remove the crystals from the bowl and set them aside. Use the newly charged water to nourish an indoor or outdoor plant. As you give these living friends a drink, consider the ways you can lovingly tend the human and nonhuman relationships that have “filled your cup” throughout the years. Let your deep gratitude flow, as you visualize your water offering making it’s way to the roots of this plant.

Closing the Ritual: Once you’ve finished, take a moment to also thank the universe for the gifts of manifestation, connection, and divine love. Feel how this great mystery lives in everything around you…and also within you. Extinguish the candles safely.

After the Ritual: Keep the charged crystals with you or place them in areas where you frequently spend time as a reminder of the closest bonds in your life. The written reflections can also be kept in a spell jar or bowl as a reminder of the love and joy in these relationships.

3 of Cups

Bring the Wisdom of the Tarot Into Your Life

The deep symbolism of the Tarot can be used to access a wellspring of inner wisdom and guidance. This method of divination is also an incredible tool for accessing your own powerful intuition.

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Tarot Rituals

Tarot Rituals, Ceremonies, Ideas, and Experiences for the Tarot Lover contains nearly 100 Tarot Ceremonies & Spreads to Nourish Your Soul. Improve your connection to spirit, make special occasions more meaningful, and become a better tarot reader with this impressive collection of rituals, spreads, and exercises. Drawing on nearly forty years of experience, Nancy C. Antenucci presents the alchemy of ritual and tarot – a powerful combination that can transform both your divination and life. She guides you through the fundamentals of ritual practice and presents a myriad of group and solitary ceremonies. You’ll also learn how to create rituals for yourself and others.

Within these pages, you’ll find rituals for giving tarot readings, celebrating holidays, birthdays, and weddings, and more. Use the 22 Acts of Magic template to discover which major arcana card offers the best guidance. Create a strong sense of connection at your gathering with the Icebreaker ritual. Whether you’re performing a ceremony for one at the Magician’s altar or leading a group like the High Priestess, Tarot Rituals is your key to awakening the magic of the cards.

How will you Harness The Transformative Power of The Tarot?

We invite you to walk into a cosmic narrative in which we are all a unique element in each other’s story. Humanity has long used sacred tools for awakening the soul and illuminating our path toward enlightenment. Tarot is simply an instrument. These cards amplify your inner wisdom and empower your highest truth.

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